FAQs For teens

What if I’m a teenager who wants to come in for therapy but I don't want my parents to find out?

Teenagers are at high risk for sexual assault, but are among the least likely to report an assault. Remember: you are not to blame for the attack. The person who hurt you is responsible for what happened, not you. Since you survived, you chose the right way to handle it. There are people who will believe you and who will help you get through the experience. Call the SATC and talk to one of our intake workers about your situation. We’ll do whatever we can to help you get the help you need.

How will my parents react?

No one can predict how your parents may react, but it's common to be uncertain about whether to tell your parents about an assault. Perhaps you don’t want to cause your parents pain or you feel ashamed. Perhaps you think they might blame you for what happened. Perhaps you were doing something they didn’t know about, like drinking at a party. If you have any of these concerns, call our hotline first. Our staff can suggest how to talk to your parents or – with your permission – can talk to your parents directly.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs) about therapy

Why should I consider therapy?

Dealing with the trauma of a sexual assault can be a lonely and frightening experience. Through therapy, you can learn to better understand your thoughts, feelings, and reactions. You can also learn to regain a sense of safety and self-esteem. It takes courage to recognize these problems and seek help. It isn’t a quick or easy process. Healing from the trauma of sexual violence takes time and patience, and starting therapy is a big step towards recovery.

How long will I be in therapy?

The time you spend in therapy is based on your needs and will be discussed between you and your therapist. Some only need a few sessions while others may need more time to fully discuss and deal with their concerns.

Where are you located?

SATC therapy offices are located in downtown Honolulu in the Harbor Court Building, 55 Merchant St., 22nd Floor. Please call 808-535-7600 for directions.

What are your hours for therapy?

We are open Monday through Friday from 8:00 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. Limited after-hours appointments are available.

How do I make an appointment for therapy?

Call 808-535-7600 Monday through Friday from 8:00 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. to schedule an appointment. We have several intake workers available to speak with you.

What is an intake?

The intake process needs to be completed before therapy can begin. This involves making an appointment to see a therapist, completing paperwork, and meeting with the therapist for one to three sessions. You will be asked to come in half-an-hour early for the initial visit to sign consent forms and complete the registration process.

You will then meet with your therapist who will get to know more about you. The first sessions are for gathering information, sharing your experiences, assessing your current situation, and discussing what you hope to achieve in therapy. Sometimes, the therapist may determine that SATC services are not right for you. If this is the case, we will refer you to other agencies or providers that can better assist you.

How long does a counseling session take?

Appointments usually last about 50 minutes and are scheduled once a week at the start of therapy, but may lessen depending on your needs and progress.

Who will I see?

Our staff consists of therapists who are trained in the area of sexual violence and trauma, including psychologists, social workers, and marriage and family therapists. We also have a psychiatrist who is available once a month for medication consultations. SATC clinicians have specific knowledge and experience in working with sex assault victims. Our intake staff will work with you to select a therapist that best fits your treatment needs.

How much does therapy cost?

We accept many different medical insurance plans. If you do not have insurance or have an insurance plan for which we are not a participating provider, we’ll help you find other resources to pay for services. For example, if you report your assault to the police, we can help you apply to the Crime Victim Compensation Commission (CVCC) to ask that they cover the cost of therapy. Another option, if you meet certain financial conditions, is our sliding fee schedule which will reduce your out-of-pocket payments. Even if you have no resources, you can still begin treatment at the SATC. We have public funds to help those who want services but cannot afford it. We’ll work with you to determine how we can best meet your treatment needs.

Do I need medication?

A consulting psychiatrist is available once a month to evaluate and monitor clients' medication. Your SATC therapist can refer you to the psychiatrist. The psychiatrist, in consultation with the therapist, determines whether medication is therapeutically indicated. While medication can be helpful, it is not a substitute for therapy. Any client who is placed on medication by the SATC psychiatrist must actively participate in therapy at the SATC. If a client needs to be seen more frequently than once a month, referrals can be made to other psychiatrists in the community.

Do you have child care services while I’m seeing a therapist?

Unfortunately, SATC does not provide child care during your scheduled appointments. Please leave young children at home or bring an adult who can watch your child in our waiting room while you are with your therapist. You may not leave a child unattended in the reception area.

Are services confidential?

Privacy is always a concern for sexual assault victims. All information within the SATC and anything you share with your therapist is confidential. We will not release or disclose any information without your consent. The only exceptions to our confidentiality policy are if you pose a threat to yourself or others, or situations involving child or elder abuse. If your therapy records are subpoenaed by a court of law, we’ll inform you and work with you and your attorney to determine the most appropriate course of action.

What is case management?

Case management means coordinating services among various agencies and individuals to help maintain the comprehensive care you need for recovery. It may include collecting information from other medical professionals about the client's care to helping the therapist respond to client needs for medical assistance, employment, school functioning, and social services.

What is legal systems advocacy?

Clients can choose whether they wish to pursue legal action. For many, the decision is difficult, especially if the perpetrator is a partner, family member, or an acquaintance. Legal systems advocacy is provided to inform a victim of their options and to support the victim throughout the legal process.

Should a client decide to pursue legal action, various services can be provided to assist in the coordination of care within the criminal justice system. Information can help victims prepare for what to expect in court, helping to reduce anxieties, and can give a victim a sense of empowerment. Therapists sometimes assist in writing a summary for the court that documents the impact of the sexual assault on the victim and loved ones. In some cases, especially with children, the therapist may attend court proceedings, if desired by the victim or family. Such support can be extremely helpful for young victims because parents are usually not allowed in the courtroom during a child’s testimony.

What is victim support services?

Victim support services means coordinating treatment among various agencies and individuals to help maintain the comprehensive care you need for recovery. It may include collecting information from other medical professionals about the client's care, or helping the therapist respond to client needs for medical assistance, employment, school functioning, and social services.